Create a Profile at OrishaConnect.Com
29/01/13 18:50
Our ancestors tend to believe that we are created and
reincarnated in groups.
I like the call these groups “soul groups.” Whenever, I think about soul groups, I remember being a child, watching the television show Soul Train (all you youngsters look up Soul Train on YouTube). For everyone else who is old school like me, I am sure that you remember the platform shoes, super-size Afros, and bell-bottomed pants. Many great celebrities and dancers got their start from appearing on the show. My favorite part of the show was the Soul Train Line. I loved to see the dancers form two lines with a space in the middle for other dancers to strut their stuff. People looked their best, wore their best, and had a good time dancing and showing off the latest moves. They set the tone for black and urban pop culture. Anything or anyone who was featured on Soul Train immediately became hot.
The dancers and performers were more than just people on a musical variety show.
They were trendsetters, legends who supported some of the biggest names in dance and in music history. They were a soul group indeed. For they were a group a people brought together by a common cause to promote black music and art. Unfortunately, there is no more Soul Train. But there is a new website called OrishaConnect. This is where people throughout the diaspora can connect, socialize, find love, companions, or maybe even get a new best friend. This is our soul group. We can now create a Soul Train Line of online profiles where we can strut our stuff, and let everyone see what we are made out of. We can create a digitalized community where like minds can engage without fear or hesitation. So create your profile today. Join the trendsetters, and ride the Soul Train Line as we bring the Orishas into mainstream culture.
OrishaConnect.com
http://www.orishaconnect.com
I like the call these groups “soul groups.” Whenever, I think about soul groups, I remember being a child, watching the television show Soul Train (all you youngsters look up Soul Train on YouTube). For everyone else who is old school like me, I am sure that you remember the platform shoes, super-size Afros, and bell-bottomed pants. Many great celebrities and dancers got their start from appearing on the show. My favorite part of the show was the Soul Train Line. I loved to see the dancers form two lines with a space in the middle for other dancers to strut their stuff. People looked their best, wore their best, and had a good time dancing and showing off the latest moves. They set the tone for black and urban pop culture. Anything or anyone who was featured on Soul Train immediately became hot.
The dancers and performers were more than just people on a musical variety show.
They were trendsetters, legends who supported some of the biggest names in dance and in music history. They were a soul group indeed. For they were a group a people brought together by a common cause to promote black music and art. Unfortunately, there is no more Soul Train. But there is a new website called OrishaConnect. This is where people throughout the diaspora can connect, socialize, find love, companions, or maybe even get a new best friend. This is our soul group. We can now create a Soul Train Line of online profiles where we can strut our stuff, and let everyone see what we are made out of. We can create a digitalized community where like minds can engage without fear or hesitation. So create your profile today. Join the trendsetters, and ride the Soul Train Line as we bring the Orishas into mainstream culture.
OrishaConnect.com
http://www.orishaconnect.com
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Emotional Baggage: What to Do When People Are Driving You Nuts
22/12/12 22:58
You’ve seen the giant monster trail mix bags at the grocery
store.
The bags weighs at least three pounds and has an assortment of candies and nuts such as M&Ms chocolates, raisins, peanuts, and cashews. We eat them by scooping them out by the handful and shoving them into our mouths. Our taste buds tingle from the assortment of flavors and textures. The receptors in our tongues can’t perceive just one taste perception: so salty, sour, bitter, and sweet elements are mixed with our saliva. Emotional baggage works very much the same way. People who are overly emotional are like the giant size, monster trial mix bag that we buy in grocery stores. They are a handful. And if we don’t learn how to communicate effectively with them, they will drive us completely nuts!
We’ve all encountered them, the co-worker we want to choke, the irate customer we want to gag, hogtie, and lock in the utility room,
the spouse we want to knock over the head with a frying pan, and the boss we secretly wished would fall asleep at the wheel and drive off a cliff. Hey! We all have fantasies. It’s the only thing that keeps us sane, especially when we are dealing with people with a great amount of emotional baggage. Lets face it, communicating with people is hard. Partly because we have an assortment of emotions, feelings, traumatic experiences, programming, and conditioning that turns us into “mixed bags of nuts.” We can be totally sweet one minute and sour the next. One bad experience can make us bitter. Criticism and judgments trigger us to be defensive and shrivel up like a slug doused in salt. We are very much in this continual state of emotional flux. This makes us pretty much unpredictable.
At any moment we could crack, fly off the deep end, and just lose it and curse somebody out.
This happens for two reasons. One, stored energy will always work to release itself when given the opportunity. Two, we fail to understand the concept of reciprocity and that we are all co-creators of a shared reality. What does this mean? It means that it takes two to make a thing go right. It means that our combined intentions matter. I’ve written in other articles that all interactions with people are relationships. These relationships work much like mirrors that reveal the deepest and darkest parts of our soul. If we “allow” people to get under our skin or drive us crazy, we are not aware. We are not fully taking advantage of the lesson that needs to be learned. It is our responses and reactions that allow us to gauge the areas in our life that need to be developed.
We have to then set a co-intention.
This is an intention that is best for everyone. We can do this by communicating from the heart. Remember, the Orisha Oshun was able to tame the mightiest man by appealing to his heart. It is her love, her fearlessness of expression that allows us to have harmony in relationships. She represents the sweetness, the prevailing force that supersedes the flavors of salty, sour, and bitter. So the next time you find yourself in a difficult situation and are on the verge of going nuts. Call out to Oshun. She will help dissuade the monster from coming out of the bag.
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
The bags weighs at least three pounds and has an assortment of candies and nuts such as M&Ms chocolates, raisins, peanuts, and cashews. We eat them by scooping them out by the handful and shoving them into our mouths. Our taste buds tingle from the assortment of flavors and textures. The receptors in our tongues can’t perceive just one taste perception: so salty, sour, bitter, and sweet elements are mixed with our saliva. Emotional baggage works very much the same way. People who are overly emotional are like the giant size, monster trial mix bag that we buy in grocery stores. They are a handful. And if we don’t learn how to communicate effectively with them, they will drive us completely nuts!
We’ve all encountered them, the co-worker we want to choke, the irate customer we want to gag, hogtie, and lock in the utility room,
the spouse we want to knock over the head with a frying pan, and the boss we secretly wished would fall asleep at the wheel and drive off a cliff. Hey! We all have fantasies. It’s the only thing that keeps us sane, especially when we are dealing with people with a great amount of emotional baggage. Lets face it, communicating with people is hard. Partly because we have an assortment of emotions, feelings, traumatic experiences, programming, and conditioning that turns us into “mixed bags of nuts.” We can be totally sweet one minute and sour the next. One bad experience can make us bitter. Criticism and judgments trigger us to be defensive and shrivel up like a slug doused in salt. We are very much in this continual state of emotional flux. This makes us pretty much unpredictable.
At any moment we could crack, fly off the deep end, and just lose it and curse somebody out.
This happens for two reasons. One, stored energy will always work to release itself when given the opportunity. Two, we fail to understand the concept of reciprocity and that we are all co-creators of a shared reality. What does this mean? It means that it takes two to make a thing go right. It means that our combined intentions matter. I’ve written in other articles that all interactions with people are relationships. These relationships work much like mirrors that reveal the deepest and darkest parts of our soul. If we “allow” people to get under our skin or drive us crazy, we are not aware. We are not fully taking advantage of the lesson that needs to be learned. It is our responses and reactions that allow us to gauge the areas in our life that need to be developed.
We have to then set a co-intention.
This is an intention that is best for everyone. We can do this by communicating from the heart. Remember, the Orisha Oshun was able to tame the mightiest man by appealing to his heart. It is her love, her fearlessness of expression that allows us to have harmony in relationships. She represents the sweetness, the prevailing force that supersedes the flavors of salty, sour, and bitter. So the next time you find yourself in a difficult situation and are on the verge of going nuts. Call out to Oshun. She will help dissuade the monster from coming out of the bag.
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
Spice up Your Love Life by Practicing Tantra
10/12/12 20:56
A crazy thing happened to me today.
It seemed that someone slipped passed my captcha code and begin to bomb my email inbox with a whole bunch of trashy spam. I have several email accounts. So I’ve built up a tolerance for spam. I treat them like my grey hairs. I pluck them out one at a time. But today, I opened my inbox to find a litany of trash mail. I got invitations from nasty college girls who wanted to invite me to their dorm. I received messages from MILF’s who were looking for booty calls. And I was cordially invited to be part of a community of casual sex buddies. Yuk! Suddenly I felt dirty like I had just participated in some kind of raunchy sexual tryst. I scrubbed my email box like it had been infected with a sexual virus or disease. It was only after I finished that I got the message that my ancestors was sending me. People really didn’t have a clue! They didn’t realize that sex was a means of finding God.
A great book on Tantra by the original Spiritually Incorrect Mystic
Tantra: The Supreme Understanding
So I guess you didn’t expect to hear that.
Historically speaking sex and God hasn’t really been a good mix. I suppose it all started when someone decided that sex was bad and sinful. So this way of thinking caused people to have more sex, they just needed to feel guilty about it afterwards. The guilt makes us not want to connect, find love, or be vulnerable. This is perhaps the reason why so many of us have intimacy issues. So we look for the quick fix. We long for the one-night stands, the casual encounters, and the friends with benefits. Sadly, we fail to realize that all sexual encounters are relationship encounters. Ouch! I know that was hard to hear, especially for the people who have commitment issues and avoids relationships like the plague.
There are a lot of people who would disagree with me.
But I truly believe that every person that we come across in life is a relationship that helps us to learn more about ourselves. As human beings, we long for intimacy, love, and affection. We need all of these things in order for our souls to grow. So we pull people into our lives that can help us heal our wounds while finding balance. Many people don’t understand the concepts of relationships, so lovemaking has become very disjointed. People start to take on a methodical approach where they treat lovemaking like it’s a mathematical equation. They really feel that they can plug in a few numbers and get the desired result.
Or they treat lovemaking like it is a machine in need of an oil change and tune-up.
When things get dull and boring, they spice things up with sex toys, DVDs and extramarital affairs. They try different positions and techniques as if lovemaking is based on just performance. Wake up! You’re not driving a car. You are looking to find your other half. You are looking to connect with someone who resonates with your soul. This is really what Tantra and sexual energy is all about. However, you can only do this when you’re totally balanced within yourself. Once you’re balanced, you are able to connect with people on a much deeper level. You will be able to create this synergy where you move, communicate, and even act as one. The concept of sexual energy is explored in my e-course. It is only when you have this balanced that you’ll be able to create the resounding climax that you long for. This is the climax of creation and love that stems from only one source, God.
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless or, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions about tantra and relationships call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
It seemed that someone slipped passed my captcha code and begin to bomb my email inbox with a whole bunch of trashy spam. I have several email accounts. So I’ve built up a tolerance for spam. I treat them like my grey hairs. I pluck them out one at a time. But today, I opened my inbox to find a litany of trash mail. I got invitations from nasty college girls who wanted to invite me to their dorm. I received messages from MILF’s who were looking for booty calls. And I was cordially invited to be part of a community of casual sex buddies. Yuk! Suddenly I felt dirty like I had just participated in some kind of raunchy sexual tryst. I scrubbed my email box like it had been infected with a sexual virus or disease. It was only after I finished that I got the message that my ancestors was sending me. People really didn’t have a clue! They didn’t realize that sex was a means of finding God.
A great book on Tantra by the original Spiritually Incorrect Mystic
Tantra: The Supreme Understanding
So I guess you didn’t expect to hear that.
Historically speaking sex and God hasn’t really been a good mix. I suppose it all started when someone decided that sex was bad and sinful. So this way of thinking caused people to have more sex, they just needed to feel guilty about it afterwards. The guilt makes us not want to connect, find love, or be vulnerable. This is perhaps the reason why so many of us have intimacy issues. So we look for the quick fix. We long for the one-night stands, the casual encounters, and the friends with benefits. Sadly, we fail to realize that all sexual encounters are relationship encounters. Ouch! I know that was hard to hear, especially for the people who have commitment issues and avoids relationships like the plague.
There are a lot of people who would disagree with me.
But I truly believe that every person that we come across in life is a relationship that helps us to learn more about ourselves. As human beings, we long for intimacy, love, and affection. We need all of these things in order for our souls to grow. So we pull people into our lives that can help us heal our wounds while finding balance. Many people don’t understand the concepts of relationships, so lovemaking has become very disjointed. People start to take on a methodical approach where they treat lovemaking like it’s a mathematical equation. They really feel that they can plug in a few numbers and get the desired result.
Or they treat lovemaking like it is a machine in need of an oil change and tune-up.
When things get dull and boring, they spice things up with sex toys, DVDs and extramarital affairs. They try different positions and techniques as if lovemaking is based on just performance. Wake up! You’re not driving a car. You are looking to find your other half. You are looking to connect with someone who resonates with your soul. This is really what Tantra and sexual energy is all about. However, you can only do this when you’re totally balanced within yourself. Once you’re balanced, you are able to connect with people on a much deeper level. You will be able to create this synergy where you move, communicate, and even act as one. The concept of sexual energy is explored in my e-course. It is only when you have this balanced that you’ll be able to create the resounding climax that you long for. This is the climax of creation and love that stems from only one source, God.
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless or, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions about tantra and relationships call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
What’s love got to do with it? Understanding the True Meaning of Soul Mates & Twin Flames.
27/10/12 17:46
What’s love got to do, got to do with it. What’s love but a
second hand emotion?
What’s love got to do, got to do, got to do with it? Who needs a heart, when a heart can be broken? The legendary songstress Tina Turner sang it right. Love is a risky business. You can win big, or lose big. Sadly, most of us lose big because we don’t have the slightest idea as to what real love is. Love is the manifestation of God. It is the strongest magnetic force in nature. It enables us to find balance within ourselves by conjoining the feminine and masculine entities.
Many of us lose in the game of love, partly because we don’t understand that it is a muscle that needs to be flexed.
We need to pump it up by engaging in as many relationships as possible. For these relationships bring us closer to finding the balance that is inside of ourselves. All relationships are about healing and growth. We subconsciously attract people in our lives to help us or guide us down a certain path. Many of us “fail” in love because we are not used to trusting in something that goes beyond our current framework of thinking. Love has become a second hand emotion. So when we fall, we fall hard.
In order for us to have harmony in relationships, we need to have harmony within ourselves.
We can only do this by effectively balancing the masculine and feminine entities inside of us. Legendary creatures such as the incubus have been known to seduce sleeping females, sucking their energy and causing them to deteriorate in spirit and in health. The succubus is its female counterpart and tends to prey on males. These mythological creatures are archetypes that embody the disparities of the masculine and feminine powers. The incubus works to deteriorate the masculine entity within the female. While the succubus works to deteriorate the feminine entity within the male.
Every relationship that we have is really an attempt for us to balance the female and male aspects of self.
Break ups, or broken hearts perpetuates the split or disharmony of these two forces. Subconsciously, we want to heal and bring these two forces together. So we may attract soul mates and or twin flames into our lives. Soul mates help us heal by helping us to release karma from past or current lives. Normally, they help us learn a lesson by addressing an issue or healing a soul wound. While twin flames challenge us to reconcile the feminine and masculine forces, so they can work and act as one. This is the true essence of love; this is the true manifestation of God.
So when you feel a magnetic pull toward someone, or have a powerful attraction toward the opposite sex.
It is important to understand that these feelings stem from the masculine and feminine forces that are conjoining inside of you. You have to flex the emotion of love and learn not to attach these feelings onto people. For attachments cause a great deal of disappointments. Understanding the concept of real love is going to give you the ability to find the most divine relationship, the relationship that you will have with yourself.
What’s love got to do, got to do, got to do with it? Who needs a heart, when a heart can be broken? The legendary songstress Tina Turner sang it right. Love is a risky business. You can win big, or lose big. Sadly, most of us lose big because we don’t have the slightest idea as to what real love is. Love is the manifestation of God. It is the strongest magnetic force in nature. It enables us to find balance within ourselves by conjoining the feminine and masculine entities.
Many of us lose in the game of love, partly because we don’t understand that it is a muscle that needs to be flexed.
We need to pump it up by engaging in as many relationships as possible. For these relationships bring us closer to finding the balance that is inside of ourselves. All relationships are about healing and growth. We subconsciously attract people in our lives to help us or guide us down a certain path. Many of us “fail” in love because we are not used to trusting in something that goes beyond our current framework of thinking. Love has become a second hand emotion. So when we fall, we fall hard.
In order for us to have harmony in relationships, we need to have harmony within ourselves.
We can only do this by effectively balancing the masculine and feminine entities inside of us. Legendary creatures such as the incubus have been known to seduce sleeping females, sucking their energy and causing them to deteriorate in spirit and in health. The succubus is its female counterpart and tends to prey on males. These mythological creatures are archetypes that embody the disparities of the masculine and feminine powers. The incubus works to deteriorate the masculine entity within the female. While the succubus works to deteriorate the feminine entity within the male.
Every relationship that we have is really an attempt for us to balance the female and male aspects of self.
Break ups, or broken hearts perpetuates the split or disharmony of these two forces. Subconsciously, we want to heal and bring these two forces together. So we may attract soul mates and or twin flames into our lives. Soul mates help us heal by helping us to release karma from past or current lives. Normally, they help us learn a lesson by addressing an issue or healing a soul wound. While twin flames challenge us to reconcile the feminine and masculine forces, so they can work and act as one. This is the true essence of love; this is the true manifestation of God.
So when you feel a magnetic pull toward someone, or have a powerful attraction toward the opposite sex.
It is important to understand that these feelings stem from the masculine and feminine forces that are conjoining inside of you. You have to flex the emotion of love and learn not to attach these feelings onto people. For attachments cause a great deal of disappointments. Understanding the concept of real love is going to give you the ability to find the most divine relationship, the relationship that you will have with yourself.
Why Do We Hurt The Ones That We Love?
07/09/12 16:16
What if I were to present to you a line up of all the people
you dated? You would be able to look at them from a two-way
mirror.
You would be able to see them, but they would not be able to see you. You would be able to call them up one at a time, asking them to turn left and right, so you can accurately identify the suspect who committed the most heinous of all crimes. You might be able to identify John the cheater, Jane the cold-hearted bitch, and William the backstabber. But as you scour your line of past lovers, you realize that they all share similar characteristics and traits. And you can’t identify just one. It is at this moment that you will realize that the person, who committed the crime of breaking your heart, did so because they just weren’t able to see the real you.
How many of us are hiding behind two-way glass mirrors?
So many of us want to stay hidden and concealed by an imaginary glass. We point fingers and find comfort in playing the victim as we identify the suspects that did us wrong. This happens because many of us fail to understand the energy that is transferred between two people. Sexual energy is the underlying force that defines all aspects of relationships. It is the omnipresent power that fuels our being and it allows us to communicate on a much deeper level. This energy actually moves through sound waves that don’t only penetrate our ears, but all of our senses.
Many of us are unaware that we are subconsciously broadcasting our feelings, thoughts, and emotions.
Millions of people are tuning into our station and it is up to us to get as many listeners as possible. Everyday, we are consistently conveying messages that come from deep within our souls. These messages include a full panorama of thoughts, feelings, dreams, and memories. People stop tuning in when the messages becomes foggy. And when negative energy starts to produce a great deal of static. People just get “turned off” entirely when we start to send out patterns of negative emotional energies.
What are patterns of negative emotional energies? It is the dark malignant energy that we inherit from our ancestors and through our bloodline.
It is the energy of social stigmas. It is the unresolved energies of emotional suppression. These kinds of pent up emotions cause us to be serial daters. We become the people who are always channel surfing, looking for the next hit song (soul) or station that can hold our attention. Then the patterns start. We begin to gravitate toward people who resonate with our repressed emotional energies. We feel attracted to others with similar dysfunctional patterns because they trigger certain emotions that are buried deep within us.
This is why it is so important for us to feel attracted to others who can help us heal our unresolved patterns and past damaged relationships.
Our ideal partner will have a magical way of reaching inside of us and touching our suppressed emotional energies and unsolved relationship issues. It is important to understand that pain and love fit perfectly together. So no matter how hard we try, we are always going to hurt the ones that we love.
You would be able to see them, but they would not be able to see you. You would be able to call them up one at a time, asking them to turn left and right, so you can accurately identify the suspect who committed the most heinous of all crimes. You might be able to identify John the cheater, Jane the cold-hearted bitch, and William the backstabber. But as you scour your line of past lovers, you realize that they all share similar characteristics and traits. And you can’t identify just one. It is at this moment that you will realize that the person, who committed the crime of breaking your heart, did so because they just weren’t able to see the real you.
How many of us are hiding behind two-way glass mirrors?
So many of us want to stay hidden and concealed by an imaginary glass. We point fingers and find comfort in playing the victim as we identify the suspects that did us wrong. This happens because many of us fail to understand the energy that is transferred between two people. Sexual energy is the underlying force that defines all aspects of relationships. It is the omnipresent power that fuels our being and it allows us to communicate on a much deeper level. This energy actually moves through sound waves that don’t only penetrate our ears, but all of our senses.
Many of us are unaware that we are subconsciously broadcasting our feelings, thoughts, and emotions.
Millions of people are tuning into our station and it is up to us to get as many listeners as possible. Everyday, we are consistently conveying messages that come from deep within our souls. These messages include a full panorama of thoughts, feelings, dreams, and memories. People stop tuning in when the messages becomes foggy. And when negative energy starts to produce a great deal of static. People just get “turned off” entirely when we start to send out patterns of negative emotional energies.
What are patterns of negative emotional energies? It is the dark malignant energy that we inherit from our ancestors and through our bloodline.
It is the energy of social stigmas. It is the unresolved energies of emotional suppression. These kinds of pent up emotions cause us to be serial daters. We become the people who are always channel surfing, looking for the next hit song (soul) or station that can hold our attention. Then the patterns start. We begin to gravitate toward people who resonate with our repressed emotional energies. We feel attracted to others with similar dysfunctional patterns because they trigger certain emotions that are buried deep within us.
This is why it is so important for us to feel attracted to others who can help us heal our unresolved patterns and past damaged relationships.
Our ideal partner will have a magical way of reaching inside of us and touching our suppressed emotional energies and unsolved relationship issues. It is important to understand that pain and love fit perfectly together. So no matter how hard we try, we are always going to hurt the ones that we love.
Powerful & Free Love Spells to Use When He’s Just Not That Into You
05/09/12 23:20
Are you ready to get the sexual
energy to surge through your lover’s body like bubbling hot
lava?
Do you want your touch to be as hot as colliding rivers of fire? Do you want your love life to be filled with spewing eruptions that enable you to get the ultimate orgasmic explosion? This love spell is way too powerful to be contained in a bottle. But the ingredients are pretty easy to come by. All you need to do is tap into the natural energy and hormones that are located inside the human body.
Do you want him to have eyes only for you?
Do you want him to be head over heels in love? Do you want to tame the wild fire of a cheating lover? Or add some spark to a dying relationship? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then the first thing you have to do is call out to Yemaya. She is the Orisha who presides over salt water, the womb, and sexual energy. But before you get too excited. It is important to understand that sexual energy is just not about sex. It is used for creation and for building and sustaining all relationships.
A good way to think about sexual energy is to imagine it as being much like a gas.
When we are attracted to someone, we immediately smell the fumes. Then there is one spark. There is a match that is lit that sets everything on fire. It is at this time that testerone is produced in both the male and female body. This hormone encourages sexual heat (Chango’s heat).
The flames of sexual energy dance and grow in proportion to the amount of testerone that is being exuded by both parties.
This creates an infatuation followed by the desire to have wild sexual splurges. However, it takes a great deal of energy to fuel this flame. This is perhaps why relationships based strictly on sex don’t have much staying power. When a relationship is faced with the dwindling flames of lust, it is time to add a few more ingredients into the love spell.
This is when the body needs to start generating the stimulants of dopamine and norepinephrine.
You may need to sprinkle in some serotonin to spice up your love potion and give your relationship that extra kick. This allows a couple to feel intensely close. This is the romance stage, the honeymoon phase where the relationship feels more like an obsession that a union of two spiritual beings. Then, you have to add the last ingredient to ensure that your relationship is long term. You need to add oxytocin and vasopressin, also known as love hormones. These hormones will give your relationship everlasting love and flavor.
Don’t worry; this is not a love spell that you can mess up.
There is no chanting or incantations. And you don’t have to worry about performing specific rituals during a full moon. All you have to do is tap into your natural resources, your sexual energy. And let Mother Nature take its course (Yemaya). Once you’re able to understand this energy, you can rest assured that your lover will always be ‘into you’.
Do you want your touch to be as hot as colliding rivers of fire? Do you want your love life to be filled with spewing eruptions that enable you to get the ultimate orgasmic explosion? This love spell is way too powerful to be contained in a bottle. But the ingredients are pretty easy to come by. All you need to do is tap into the natural energy and hormones that are located inside the human body.
Do you want him to have eyes only for you?
Do you want him to be head over heels in love? Do you want to tame the wild fire of a cheating lover? Or add some spark to a dying relationship? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then the first thing you have to do is call out to Yemaya. She is the Orisha who presides over salt water, the womb, and sexual energy. But before you get too excited. It is important to understand that sexual energy is just not about sex. It is used for creation and for building and sustaining all relationships.
A good way to think about sexual energy is to imagine it as being much like a gas.
When we are attracted to someone, we immediately smell the fumes. Then there is one spark. There is a match that is lit that sets everything on fire. It is at this time that testerone is produced in both the male and female body. This hormone encourages sexual heat (Chango’s heat).
The flames of sexual energy dance and grow in proportion to the amount of testerone that is being exuded by both parties.
This creates an infatuation followed by the desire to have wild sexual splurges. However, it takes a great deal of energy to fuel this flame. This is perhaps why relationships based strictly on sex don’t have much staying power. When a relationship is faced with the dwindling flames of lust, it is time to add a few more ingredients into the love spell.
This is when the body needs to start generating the stimulants of dopamine and norepinephrine.
You may need to sprinkle in some serotonin to spice up your love potion and give your relationship that extra kick. This allows a couple to feel intensely close. This is the romance stage, the honeymoon phase where the relationship feels more like an obsession that a union of two spiritual beings. Then, you have to add the last ingredient to ensure that your relationship is long term. You need to add oxytocin and vasopressin, also known as love hormones. These hormones will give your relationship everlasting love and flavor.
Don’t worry; this is not a love spell that you can mess up.
There is no chanting or incantations. And you don’t have to worry about performing specific rituals during a full moon. All you have to do is tap into your natural resources, your sexual energy. And let Mother Nature take its course (Yemaya). Once you’re able to understand this energy, you can rest assured that your lover will always be ‘into you’.
Keep Your Love Locked Down and Find Your Soul Mate
21/06/12 12:06
You ever have one of those songs that you just can’t get out of
your head.
These songs are so incredibly infectious that you find yourself singing the lyrics at the most inopportune time. I guess that is the power of good music, or good marketing. The one song that I like to avoid is “Love Locked Down,” By Kanye West. It is not that I don’t like the song. I love it! I just don’t want to sing it all day.
I suppose the song resonates strongly with me because it touches on the risk we all have to take to find love.
This is the meaning I got from the lyrics the first time I heard the song. Then, after the 50th time of singing the song to myself or to other people, I realized that it just wasn’t’ about love, it was about finding the right partner. We have to keep our love locked down!
We all have our ideal soul mate.
Our soul mates are kind, caring, loving, resourceful faithful, honest, and incredibly good looking. They are always supportive and would never do anything to hurt us. We each have a perfect match that we are constantly searching for. But in order for us to search for him or her, we have to have a prototype that strictly exists in our heads. Then, we go through life looking to replicate him or her.
It is important to understand that there is a dichotomy that splits our world into two spheres.
Everything is positive and negative, or good or bad. Thanks to Einstein, we operate under the Theory of Relativity where people have to define the best by comparing it to the rest. When it comes to relationships, we compare people to other people. Or we compare them to the ideal prototype that we have sketched out in our heads.
This way of thinking can really complicate things.
Especially when we compare are current boyfriend with our ex boyfriends. Or when we compare our new girlfriend with the ideal prototype that we have drawn up in our heads. After all, we are looking for perfection. However, we get disappointed when our partners come up short, and can’t meet our expectations. So we settle. We’ve have been taught that life is about compromise, that we are never going to get all of our needs met from one single person.
However, there is one major draw back from thinking this way.
Too often in life, we miss the best by settling for the rest. After all, that ideal prototype is inside of your head for a reason. It knows what is “best” for you. It is the inner voice that plays continuously like a reoccurring record, reminding you that you can do so much better. So you start singing your prototypes’ tune to your spouse, girlfriend, or lover. You start to sing it at the most inopportune times. You want him or her to be more like your prototype. So you constantly criticize or find fault with them. You want to accept them for who and what they are. However, your ideal prototype is like an infectious tune that won’t stop playing in your head.
We have to understand that good will never be good enough, when it is compared to the best.
We live in a world where winner takes all. This makes it difficult to be happy unless we feel like we have the best. What is the secret to this madness? How do we find partners or people who are like our ideal prototype? First, we have to become our ideal prototype. If we feel like we are not with our ideal mate. That means we still have a lot of work to do on ourselves.
However, it is so important not to settle, or split your energy amongst several different partners.
For these things will further deter you from meeting your soul mate. How do you know if you’ve met your soul mate? When you no longer feel the need to have to compare. So remember to keep your love locked down-your love locked down-keepin your love locked down-your love locked down-keep your love locked down. You lose… You lose…You lose…You lose…
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
These songs are so incredibly infectious that you find yourself singing the lyrics at the most inopportune time. I guess that is the power of good music, or good marketing. The one song that I like to avoid is “Love Locked Down,” By Kanye West. It is not that I don’t like the song. I love it! I just don’t want to sing it all day.
I suppose the song resonates strongly with me because it touches on the risk we all have to take to find love.
This is the meaning I got from the lyrics the first time I heard the song. Then, after the 50th time of singing the song to myself or to other people, I realized that it just wasn’t’ about love, it was about finding the right partner. We have to keep our love locked down!
We all have our ideal soul mate.
Our soul mates are kind, caring, loving, resourceful faithful, honest, and incredibly good looking. They are always supportive and would never do anything to hurt us. We each have a perfect match that we are constantly searching for. But in order for us to search for him or her, we have to have a prototype that strictly exists in our heads. Then, we go through life looking to replicate him or her.
It is important to understand that there is a dichotomy that splits our world into two spheres.
Everything is positive and negative, or good or bad. Thanks to Einstein, we operate under the Theory of Relativity where people have to define the best by comparing it to the rest. When it comes to relationships, we compare people to other people. Or we compare them to the ideal prototype that we have sketched out in our heads.
This way of thinking can really complicate things.
Especially when we compare are current boyfriend with our ex boyfriends. Or when we compare our new girlfriend with the ideal prototype that we have drawn up in our heads. After all, we are looking for perfection. However, we get disappointed when our partners come up short, and can’t meet our expectations. So we settle. We’ve have been taught that life is about compromise, that we are never going to get all of our needs met from one single person.
However, there is one major draw back from thinking this way.
Too often in life, we miss the best by settling for the rest. After all, that ideal prototype is inside of your head for a reason. It knows what is “best” for you. It is the inner voice that plays continuously like a reoccurring record, reminding you that you can do so much better. So you start singing your prototypes’ tune to your spouse, girlfriend, or lover. You start to sing it at the most inopportune times. You want him or her to be more like your prototype. So you constantly criticize or find fault with them. You want to accept them for who and what they are. However, your ideal prototype is like an infectious tune that won’t stop playing in your head.
We have to understand that good will never be good enough, when it is compared to the best.
We live in a world where winner takes all. This makes it difficult to be happy unless we feel like we have the best. What is the secret to this madness? How do we find partners or people who are like our ideal prototype? First, we have to become our ideal prototype. If we feel like we are not with our ideal mate. That means we still have a lot of work to do on ourselves.
However, it is so important not to settle, or split your energy amongst several different partners.
For these things will further deter you from meeting your soul mate. How do you know if you’ve met your soul mate? When you no longer feel the need to have to compare. So remember to keep your love locked down-your love locked down-keepin your love locked down-your love locked down-keep your love locked down. You lose… You lose…You lose…You lose…
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
Love Addictions
13/06/12 23:50
I just want to give you a short quiz on what you think love is. A, Do you think that love is about reciprocity?
B, Do you feel that love is about openness, honesty, and sharing?
C, Do you feel that love is about calling someone ten to twenty times a day, monitoring their Facebook page like it is a stock market message board, and conducting casual drive-bys to see if they are home is love?
If you answered C, then I regret to inform you that you fall into the category of being an emotional stalker.
What is an emotional stalker?
It is a lot like an obsession, but goes beyond harassment and intimidation. People who are emotional stalkers suffer from a serious case of mistaken identity. Emotional stalking is actually very common and many famous people have been known to have this disorder. Pepé Le Pew spent his whole career in pursuit of a female cat, which he believed was a skunk. The cat worked hard to escape his repugnant smell, but Pepé was relentless in his pursuit.
Pepé Le Pew is not the only one.
Millions of people are chasing after the wrong people. Their desperation is like a repugnant smell. It is an immediate turn-off that sends people running towards the door. However, emotional stalkers just can’t take the hint that people are just not interested. They continue to pursue them, until they get a restraining order in the mail. Emotional stalking is actually a very serious condition that stems from the malnourishment of love.
In truth, our souls need love in order to grow and heal.
However, so many of us grow up in environments where love wasn’t always expressed. Even people who come from relatively healthy homes may have had to bargain for love. They may have faced situations where they were only loved if they behaved in a certain way. Conditional love is almost as bad as not loving at all. Because with conditional love, we are not fully accepting the people we care about.
Since we didn’t have love when we were younger, we grow up and have a ravenous appetite for love later in life.
We want to devour people who give us just a little attention. We want to bring in the U-Haul after just one date, and we are willing to give everything up, and sacrifice ourselves, just to feel loved. Emotional stalkers don’t take no for an answer, because they can’t. To them, it is a life and death situation, where they need to seriously feed on love in order to survive.
But that’s the biggest problem with emotional stalkers.
Other people can “smell” their dysfunction and they are repulsed by it. They are turned off by clinginess, by co-dependency, by desperation that is gleaming in their eyes. They are like the skunk, chasing after the cat. They are longing for people who are unavailable and looking for something that they can only find within themselves.
Emotional stalkers may have a hard time finding love and getting affection from other people.
So they are going to have to find ways to generate the feeling of love within them selves. We’ve all heard the expressions that you can’t love anyone unless you love yourself. Or that the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself. All of these things are true. However, there is no real love except for the love that you have for yourself.
New African Spirituality takes a spiritually incorrect approach to self-development. We aim to produce real results without the fluff, drama, and theatrics. Contact us today and get consultations, divinations, readings, www.newafricanspirituality.com
Am I in an Abusive Relationship
06/06/12 14:49
Be aware!
There are people who are committing the most heinous spiritual crimes. They look like regular people. They could very well be your ex-boyfriend, current wife, or psycho girlfriend that you just can’t get rid of. Some people may refer to them as divas, or ladies men, pimps, or players. Or others who are truly intuitive may say that they suffer from severe psychological issues.
I believe that these people are a couple of therapeutic couch sessions away from being full-blown serial killers.
Besides, they have much of the same mind-set; they just aren’t crazy enough to take their sick fantasies all the way. So maybe they don’t wet the bed, or torture small cats or dogs. They are spiritually torturing themselves and everyone they come into contact with, because they operate with their weaknesses as opposed to their strengths.
Everything is great in the beginning.
Much like a serial killer they will work to lure you in with their charm. They know that you are going to have your defenses up, so they put on an act and make you believe that they are not going to hurt you. Watch out! They are looking to build your trust, and then they are going to attack. These are the people who emotionally exploit you. They intentionally go out of their way to hurt you.
It is safe to say that these people have serious issues.
For them, there is a miss match between certain thoughts and emotions, and actions and reactions are not paired up correctly. This produces weird awkward behavior that goes beyond laughing at funerals. These are the people who love drama. They love to make you jealous or upset, because they are looking for the opportunity to have power over you. Their domination does not only have to be physical, it can be emotional, financial, and even spiritual.
So why do these people even exist?
I can answer that question with two words, bad programing. Our souls carry programs from successive lifespans. Overtime, we get run-down and start to suffer from normal wear and tear. Traumatic events like abuse, neglect and abandonment create glitches in our system. So we are no longer able to operate effectively. Without treatment, our thoughts are not properly matched with the right emotion. So we mistake things like pain for love.
It is human instinct to look for a partner who we are compatible with.
So we instinctively look for partners who have the same bad programing or glitches as we do. Only, for an abusive relationship to work, there has to be a positive and negative spark. If the partner we seek is domineering, we must inherently agree to be submissive. This is the only way an abusive relationship will work.
So what does all this mean?
It means that your bad programing will cause you to attract others with bad programing. It means that you are building your abusive relationships based on your weaknesses and not your strengths. In these kinds of relationships, both couples will degrade in character. They will degrade in such a way, where one will become the abuser and the other the victim. The abuser and the victim will have this sick attraction to pain and suffering, because that is the only thing that generates the spark needed for the relationship to survive. This process will continue until there is a powerful climax, where one or both parties end up dead. They can be dead emotionally, spiritually, or physically.
If you are wondering why you keep going back to someone who you know is abusive?
It is because you have yet to master your weaknesses. If you find that you are constantly attracted to people who hurt you, mistreat you, or don’t respect you. You can solve these problems by changing your coding. These things are further explained in my e-course, The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones To Enlightenment. Buy the course and learn how to reprogram your life, fix your glitches and have positive and loving relationship that you deserve. All you have to do is change yourself from the inside out.
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless or to learn more about abusive relationships, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions about tantra and relationships call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
There are people who are committing the most heinous spiritual crimes. They look like regular people. They could very well be your ex-boyfriend, current wife, or psycho girlfriend that you just can’t get rid of. Some people may refer to them as divas, or ladies men, pimps, or players. Or others who are truly intuitive may say that they suffer from severe psychological issues.
I believe that these people are a couple of therapeutic couch sessions away from being full-blown serial killers.
Besides, they have much of the same mind-set; they just aren’t crazy enough to take their sick fantasies all the way. So maybe they don’t wet the bed, or torture small cats or dogs. They are spiritually torturing themselves and everyone they come into contact with, because they operate with their weaknesses as opposed to their strengths.
Everything is great in the beginning.
Much like a serial killer they will work to lure you in with their charm. They know that you are going to have your defenses up, so they put on an act and make you believe that they are not going to hurt you. Watch out! They are looking to build your trust, and then they are going to attack. These are the people who emotionally exploit you. They intentionally go out of their way to hurt you.
It is safe to say that these people have serious issues.
For them, there is a miss match between certain thoughts and emotions, and actions and reactions are not paired up correctly. This produces weird awkward behavior that goes beyond laughing at funerals. These are the people who love drama. They love to make you jealous or upset, because they are looking for the opportunity to have power over you. Their domination does not only have to be physical, it can be emotional, financial, and even spiritual.
So why do these people even exist?
I can answer that question with two words, bad programing. Our souls carry programs from successive lifespans. Overtime, we get run-down and start to suffer from normal wear and tear. Traumatic events like abuse, neglect and abandonment create glitches in our system. So we are no longer able to operate effectively. Without treatment, our thoughts are not properly matched with the right emotion. So we mistake things like pain for love.
It is human instinct to look for a partner who we are compatible with.
So we instinctively look for partners who have the same bad programing or glitches as we do. Only, for an abusive relationship to work, there has to be a positive and negative spark. If the partner we seek is domineering, we must inherently agree to be submissive. This is the only way an abusive relationship will work.
So what does all this mean?
It means that your bad programing will cause you to attract others with bad programing. It means that you are building your abusive relationships based on your weaknesses and not your strengths. In these kinds of relationships, both couples will degrade in character. They will degrade in such a way, where one will become the abuser and the other the victim. The abuser and the victim will have this sick attraction to pain and suffering, because that is the only thing that generates the spark needed for the relationship to survive. This process will continue until there is a powerful climax, where one or both parties end up dead. They can be dead emotionally, spiritually, or physically.
If you are wondering why you keep going back to someone who you know is abusive?
It is because you have yet to master your weaknesses. If you find that you are constantly attracted to people who hurt you, mistreat you, or don’t respect you. You can solve these problems by changing your coding. These things are further explained in my e-course, The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones To Enlightenment. Buy the course and learn how to reprogram your life, fix your glitches and have positive and loving relationship that you deserve. All you have to do is change yourself from the inside out.
If you are looking for a crash course on how to be fearless or to learn more about abusive relationships, check out my e-course. The Seven African Powers: The Stepping Stones to Enlightenment. Or, if you have additional questions about tantra and relationships call for a consultation. I am always ready and willing to help! www.newafricanspirituality.com
Love In Abundance
27/04/12 13:06
Don’t be fooled by this whole New Age crap that tells you that
you have to give in order to receive.
You may think that it is very noble to give your money and possessions away. But you will go bankrupt before you ever get a thank you from any one of your receivers. The whole obsession with attracting abundance into your life is a fallacy. People just say that to sell books and to fill seats in workshops and conference centers. Most of us are never going to have an abundance of money. Because abundance is not really about money, it’s about love. Sadly, our approach to love is the same as our approach to money. We just can’t get enough of it.
Let’s face it. We live in a world where there’s limited resources.
As far as I can tell, it’s always been that way. It started with the barter system, where everything was based on a trade. People traded crops for services and services for crops. However, the barter system got a little complicated, when people’s services or crops were no longer needed. Then, someone came up with the brilliant idea to create money, a currency system that enabled people to buy whatever they wanted. People started to provide their services and products for money.
Now, people can’t get the barter system out of their heads.
When they go out and buy something. They want to get the best deal possible. They are looking for a bargain, a steal; the best deal money can buy. Why do people behave like this? Because they understand that resources are scarce and they have to get their money to stretch as far as possible.
Similarly, people have this same approach when it comes to love and relationships.
They treat love like it’s a currency. They will give love, only when they know they are going to get love in return. We treat love as if it’s a currency, or some kind of stock option that we can lose money on. Then, we are disappointed when the people we love don’t do what we say, or don’t behave the way we would have liked them to behave. We treat love like it is some kind of investment. When it starts to tank. We want to toss away our love like it was some kind of cheap knock-off bag.
Our loneliness is a result of our conditioning; we are reared to believe that love is scarce.
It is something that we have to work for, or something that we have to earn. So we go through life, writing ‘”love checks” mistakenly believing that other people are going to meet our needs. We do things to please other people; we make so many sacrifices just to feel loved. But love is not a sell-out. It cannot be brought or sold. Love is the only resource that is unlimited. The only thing that we have in abundance is love.
However, we create a lot of problems when we feel that love has to be rationed, when we put all these conditions on love. Loving with certain expectations is the wrong way to love. Why? Because 99.9% of the time you are going to be disappointed. The truth of the matter is that no one will ever be able to meet your needs better than you. No one can love you better than you. Once you understand this, you understand your richness, your wealth, and your value in life.
Then you can become fearless. You are able to rip the chains off your heart.
And you can write those “love checks” as if you have billions of dollars in the bank. You will never be afraid of taking a loss. Because you are never at a loss when it comes to love. This is why people say that its better to give than to receive.
You may think that it is very noble to give your money and possessions away. But you will go bankrupt before you ever get a thank you from any one of your receivers. The whole obsession with attracting abundance into your life is a fallacy. People just say that to sell books and to fill seats in workshops and conference centers. Most of us are never going to have an abundance of money. Because abundance is not really about money, it’s about love. Sadly, our approach to love is the same as our approach to money. We just can’t get enough of it.
Let’s face it. We live in a world where there’s limited resources.
As far as I can tell, it’s always been that way. It started with the barter system, where everything was based on a trade. People traded crops for services and services for crops. However, the barter system got a little complicated, when people’s services or crops were no longer needed. Then, someone came up with the brilliant idea to create money, a currency system that enabled people to buy whatever they wanted. People started to provide their services and products for money.
Now, people can’t get the barter system out of their heads.
When they go out and buy something. They want to get the best deal possible. They are looking for a bargain, a steal; the best deal money can buy. Why do people behave like this? Because they understand that resources are scarce and they have to get their money to stretch as far as possible.
Similarly, people have this same approach when it comes to love and relationships.
They treat love like it’s a currency. They will give love, only when they know they are going to get love in return. We treat love as if it’s a currency, or some kind of stock option that we can lose money on. Then, we are disappointed when the people we love don’t do what we say, or don’t behave the way we would have liked them to behave. We treat love like it is some kind of investment. When it starts to tank. We want to toss away our love like it was some kind of cheap knock-off bag.
Our loneliness is a result of our conditioning; we are reared to believe that love is scarce.
It is something that we have to work for, or something that we have to earn. So we go through life, writing ‘”love checks” mistakenly believing that other people are going to meet our needs. We do things to please other people; we make so many sacrifices just to feel loved. But love is not a sell-out. It cannot be brought or sold. Love is the only resource that is unlimited. The only thing that we have in abundance is love.
However, we create a lot of problems when we feel that love has to be rationed, when we put all these conditions on love. Loving with certain expectations is the wrong way to love. Why? Because 99.9% of the time you are going to be disappointed. The truth of the matter is that no one will ever be able to meet your needs better than you. No one can love you better than you. Once you understand this, you understand your richness, your wealth, and your value in life.
Then you can become fearless. You are able to rip the chains off your heart.
And you can write those “love checks” as if you have billions of dollars in the bank. You will never be afraid of taking a loss. Because you are never at a loss when it comes to love. This is why people say that its better to give than to receive.
Symptoms of Spiritually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
29/02/12 21:28
Spiritually transmitted diseases result from the unprotected
exchange of energy.
Every time we interact with people, we are formulating energetic contracts or constraints that may result in the lost of energy, the acceptance of toxic energy from others, and or harmful connections that cannot be severed.
Cords are the most prominent form of STDs.
Our auric fields consist of numerous bands or layers of energy that vibrate at different frequencies. When we interact with people, our auras merge, and we began to share information. Bonds are created when people began to exchange feelings and beliefs. However, these bonds can become harmful when the information that is exchanged is used to hinder or even imprison another person. Cords are very difficult to break because they span over time and space. Even when people are separated, cords continue to exchange feelings and information. This makes it difficult for people to detach from groups, relationships, and systems. We see this a lot with cults, gangs, and dysfunctional families.
Energy markers are another form of STDs. Many people often wonder why they get treated badly, or why they are victims of neglect and abuse.
They fail to realize that there are certain markers in their auric fields. These markers dictate how others should treat them. Having an energy marker in your auric field is like walking around with a kick me sign on your back. It invites others to treat you badly. People work to try and remedy this problem by changing their behavior. But they still find themselves being treated disrespectfully. Many people would say that this is the victim mentality. However, the people who are suffering from energy markers fail to realize that they are allowing others to pour salt into their unhealed wounds.
Holds are a form of STDs that restrict the flow of energy throughout the body.
Holds are normally placed by one person on another to keep them in a certain position for an extended period of time. Holds are normally put on children to keep them safe. However, others have used holds on students, lovers, and friends. They do this to ensure that they have a steady flow of life energy. People who are victims of holds are discouraged from leaving the nest, from fulfilling their dreams, and from capitalizing on opportunities. People who are victims of holds genuinely believe that their parents, teachers, friends, and lovers know what’s best for them. They are afraid to defy or disappoint them, and thus place their opinions above their own intuition and burning desires.
If you feel like you are suffering from any of the symptoms discussed in this article contact a healer right away. Through proper cleaning and energy work, they can help you find a cure for your STD.
Yamaya Cruz is the author of When The Shadows Began To Dance. She writes about African spirituality, chakra healing, shamanism and much more.
Every time we interact with people, we are formulating energetic contracts or constraints that may result in the lost of energy, the acceptance of toxic energy from others, and or harmful connections that cannot be severed.
Cords are the most prominent form of STDs.
Our auric fields consist of numerous bands or layers of energy that vibrate at different frequencies. When we interact with people, our auras merge, and we began to share information. Bonds are created when people began to exchange feelings and beliefs. However, these bonds can become harmful when the information that is exchanged is used to hinder or even imprison another person. Cords are very difficult to break because they span over time and space. Even when people are separated, cords continue to exchange feelings and information. This makes it difficult for people to detach from groups, relationships, and systems. We see this a lot with cults, gangs, and dysfunctional families.
Energy markers are another form of STDs. Many people often wonder why they get treated badly, or why they are victims of neglect and abuse.
They fail to realize that there are certain markers in their auric fields. These markers dictate how others should treat them. Having an energy marker in your auric field is like walking around with a kick me sign on your back. It invites others to treat you badly. People work to try and remedy this problem by changing their behavior. But they still find themselves being treated disrespectfully. Many people would say that this is the victim mentality. However, the people who are suffering from energy markers fail to realize that they are allowing others to pour salt into their unhealed wounds.
Holds are a form of STDs that restrict the flow of energy throughout the body.
Holds are normally placed by one person on another to keep them in a certain position for an extended period of time. Holds are normally put on children to keep them safe. However, others have used holds on students, lovers, and friends. They do this to ensure that they have a steady flow of life energy. People who are victims of holds are discouraged from leaving the nest, from fulfilling their dreams, and from capitalizing on opportunities. People who are victims of holds genuinely believe that their parents, teachers, friends, and lovers know what’s best for them. They are afraid to defy or disappoint them, and thus place their opinions above their own intuition and burning desires.
If you feel like you are suffering from any of the symptoms discussed in this article contact a healer right away. Through proper cleaning and energy work, they can help you find a cure for your STD.
Yamaya Cruz is the author of When The Shadows Began To Dance. She writes about African spirituality, chakra healing, shamanism and much more.
Putting A Condom On Negative Spiritual Energy
27/02/12 12:17
People jokingly call my hometown “Dirty Jersey.” Or it is
referred to as the “Garbage State,” as opposed to the Garden
State.
I ‘ve lived in New Jersey all of my life and I smelled the effects of pollution. I am attacked by smoke and smog whenever I hit the NJ Turnpike. Sadly, people don’t really understand the grave effects of pollution. We fail to understand that the negative energy that we expend works to not only trash our earth, but our souls as well.
The same thing that is happening to our earth is happening to a woman’s womb. Sadly, it many situations, it is being used as a trash dump.
People are not spiritually aware, so they lack the understanding of how to expel negative energy. Unconsciously, they release this energy through sexual intercourse. Sexually transmitted diseases and viruses such as HIV are manifestations of this kind of energy.
Trash dumps and pollution was a huge issue in the 1980s. Mainly because many of the sites didn’t have proper liners and the trash was lumped together and not properly sorted.
This resulted in a great deal of air pollution from the infusion of various incompatible chemicals. Also, nearby water supplies and rivers were tainted by liquids that seeped through the ground.
HIV also emerged as an epidemic around this time.
It was a virus that was transmitted through blood and semen. People didn’t use “liners” for protection, so they were susceptible to a great deal of incompatible energies. “Liquids” from sexual intercourse began to seep into the body and destroy the white blood cells, thus weakening the immune system.
Now, people are more aware, and landfills have proper liners. People are using contraceptives when engaging in sexual intercourse.
Although contraceptives work to stop the exchange of bodily fluids, it doesn’t stop the exchange of energy. When engaging in intercourse, our auras or bio fields merge. These bio fields, or auras can be easily penetrated by our partner’s negative energy. Furthermore, through sexual intercourse, we are not only exposing our selves to our partner’s energy, but to everyone our partner has had sex with as well. This creates incompatible energies that bring about malady and disease.
A woman’s womb is sacred and is built for creation. However, much like our earth, a womb can be tainted by negative energy.
We must understand that we have to live on our earth, just as our children need to be born from our wombs. The best way to combat the exchange of negative energy is to wear a liner! Build strong bio fields and auras that are not easily penetrated, and be incredibly careful and selective about who we intimately engage with.
I ‘ve lived in New Jersey all of my life and I smelled the effects of pollution. I am attacked by smoke and smog whenever I hit the NJ Turnpike. Sadly, people don’t really understand the grave effects of pollution. We fail to understand that the negative energy that we expend works to not only trash our earth, but our souls as well.
The same thing that is happening to our earth is happening to a woman’s womb. Sadly, it many situations, it is being used as a trash dump.
People are not spiritually aware, so they lack the understanding of how to expel negative energy. Unconsciously, they release this energy through sexual intercourse. Sexually transmitted diseases and viruses such as HIV are manifestations of this kind of energy.
Trash dumps and pollution was a huge issue in the 1980s. Mainly because many of the sites didn’t have proper liners and the trash was lumped together and not properly sorted.
This resulted in a great deal of air pollution from the infusion of various incompatible chemicals. Also, nearby water supplies and rivers were tainted by liquids that seeped through the ground.
HIV also emerged as an epidemic around this time.
It was a virus that was transmitted through blood and semen. People didn’t use “liners” for protection, so they were susceptible to a great deal of incompatible energies. “Liquids” from sexual intercourse began to seep into the body and destroy the white blood cells, thus weakening the immune system.
Now, people are more aware, and landfills have proper liners. People are using contraceptives when engaging in sexual intercourse.
Although contraceptives work to stop the exchange of bodily fluids, it doesn’t stop the exchange of energy. When engaging in intercourse, our auras or bio fields merge. These bio fields, or auras can be easily penetrated by our partner’s negative energy. Furthermore, through sexual intercourse, we are not only exposing our selves to our partner’s energy, but to everyone our partner has had sex with as well. This creates incompatible energies that bring about malady and disease.
A woman’s womb is sacred and is built for creation. However, much like our earth, a womb can be tainted by negative energy.
We must understand that we have to live on our earth, just as our children need to be born from our wombs. The best way to combat the exchange of negative energy is to wear a liner! Build strong bio fields and auras that are not easily penetrated, and be incredibly careful and selective about who we intimately engage with.
Negative Energy That Ruins Relationships
27/02/12 12:10
Today, there are thousands of women in Africa who are victims
of rape through war.
Invading soldiers use rape as a tactic to conquer rival villages and tribes. Once these women are raped, they are type cast as being “ruined” ousted out of their village, and ostracized by family and friends. Rape is also spoken about in many African myths. The concept of rape and incest is considered taboo in virtually every culture. It is condemned all around the world, because it inflicts irreparable harm to the natural balance of relationships.
The African deity Yemaya is considered the mother of all Orishas.
She is the patron of the womb, which is the symbolization of creation. She is also a nurturer, much like our Earth, she gives and loves unconditionally. There is an unspoken relationship between the male and female powers, an energy contract that makes men the givers, and women, the receivers. This relationship is disrupted when men intentionally began to expel negative energy.
I’ve mentioned in previous articles that there is a significant amount of energy that is exchanged during sexual intercourse.
Auras, or bio-fields merge, and energy are exchanged from one person to the next. People often wonder why men in times of combat go off and rape women. They do it because they have a whole bunch of built up hostility in their auric fields. And the only way they know how to release this energy is through sexual intercourse. Releasing this kind of energy into a woman’s womb is like polluting the stream that she and her children drink out of.
This kind of energy is toxic to a woman’s womb because her stream of life is tainted, and her children and loved ones no longer have clean water to drink from.
As a result, women become hardened and bitter. And men go out looking for other streams to drink out of. Many people believe that most men cheat because they lack the ability to release energy properly. They have been unconsciously trained to “dump” their bad energy into a woman’s stream, her womb, and thus never really having to deal with their issues and emotions.
This process establishes an enabling relationship where women began to carry the men’s pain. Many women wonder how men can cheat and not feel guilty, or how they can walk away from their families and not feel any remorse. They can do it because they are constantly downloading their energy into other women. By doing this, they are operating with a disease that they are unaware of, and they are infecting dozens if not hundreds of people.
We can look around us and see how this kind of behavior affects our relationships and families in our communities.
So how can we combat this kind of behavior? We can first become aware. Then we work to establish a sense of alchemy, where negative emotions can be transformed into positive. This will restore the balance of power that is needed for any relationship to be successful.
Yamaya Cruz is the author of When The Shadows Began To Dance. She writes about African spirituality, chakra healing, shamanism and much more.
Invading soldiers use rape as a tactic to conquer rival villages and tribes. Once these women are raped, they are type cast as being “ruined” ousted out of their village, and ostracized by family and friends. Rape is also spoken about in many African myths. The concept of rape and incest is considered taboo in virtually every culture. It is condemned all around the world, because it inflicts irreparable harm to the natural balance of relationships.
The African deity Yemaya is considered the mother of all Orishas.
She is the patron of the womb, which is the symbolization of creation. She is also a nurturer, much like our Earth, she gives and loves unconditionally. There is an unspoken relationship between the male and female powers, an energy contract that makes men the givers, and women, the receivers. This relationship is disrupted when men intentionally began to expel negative energy.
I’ve mentioned in previous articles that there is a significant amount of energy that is exchanged during sexual intercourse.
Auras, or bio-fields merge, and energy are exchanged from one person to the next. People often wonder why men in times of combat go off and rape women. They do it because they have a whole bunch of built up hostility in their auric fields. And the only way they know how to release this energy is through sexual intercourse. Releasing this kind of energy into a woman’s womb is like polluting the stream that she and her children drink out of.
This kind of energy is toxic to a woman’s womb because her stream of life is tainted, and her children and loved ones no longer have clean water to drink from.
As a result, women become hardened and bitter. And men go out looking for other streams to drink out of. Many people believe that most men cheat because they lack the ability to release energy properly. They have been unconsciously trained to “dump” their bad energy into a woman’s stream, her womb, and thus never really having to deal with their issues and emotions.
This process establishes an enabling relationship where women began to carry the men’s pain. Many women wonder how men can cheat and not feel guilty, or how they can walk away from their families and not feel any remorse. They can do it because they are constantly downloading their energy into other women. By doing this, they are operating with a disease that they are unaware of, and they are infecting dozens if not hundreds of people.
We can look around us and see how this kind of behavior affects our relationships and families in our communities.
So how can we combat this kind of behavior? We can first become aware. Then we work to establish a sense of alchemy, where negative emotions can be transformed into positive. This will restore the balance of power that is needed for any relationship to be successful.
Yamaya Cruz is the author of When The Shadows Began To Dance. She writes about African spirituality, chakra healing, shamanism and much more.
